A sweet hello to the faithful readers of my blog....that amounts up to only three people... my dear friends; gareth, livee, amanda and hong leong..sadly, i still have not summoned enough guts to declare my blog open, official, up and runnin'...=p..
kar mern has received her acceptance letter from cardiff this morning... it seems so unreal...that she's really really going... and knowing karmern, she will choose not ever to come back... i know my best friend=)
Friendship
have you ever wondered what friendship really means and what position it holds in your life.. is it your top priority? and if it isn't, have you ever asked yourself why ?
i'm going to tell you what friendship is to me and the role it plays in my life..
friendship to me is something that needs 3 things, communication, acceptance and forgiveness... isn't that what every relationship needs for that matter?
karmern, lisa, wei ann, yimin, peish, krystle, grace and i talk about cabbages and kings, shoes, ships and celing wax... -communication. kar mern is straightforward to boot.. it hurts, yeah.. but isn't that where acceptance comes in? she has called me fat, stupid, lazy, a bi*ch and many more..but not so so mean ones la=)..... and here is where forgiveness takes it's place..
Lisa is my role model and friend forever,..she migrated to Perth on the 19th of january 2002... she is the most talented person i've ever met...give her any song, any day and she'll hop over to the piano and play it... she has gotten straight distinctions for all her ABRSM exams from grade one to eight..amazing isn't it? she writes her own songs, plays the guitar, i taught her drums and she can sing... she's beautiful inside out and use to constantly worry about not getting married...she has got a boyfriend now..after long last and WILL get married to him in 3 years time i have no doubt..the perfect couple if i had ever met one.. and one more thing..she's no bimbo! she got a TER of 99.7% for AUSMAT in perth!=)..miss you lisAAAAAA!!
my very good friend gareth is not be be forgotten.. he recently left for kedah to study medicine... he was supposed to migrate to canada...but luckily, it didn't pull through (selfish me) but i'm glad..better kedah than canada!! he was there for me through EVERY sadness i've went through.. i'm the ungratefullest friend to him.. but i love you gareth! and miss you loads..
will continue about my other friends in next post.=P
my group of friends...there was never an unkind gesture..we loved each other so much and still do!! sleepovers and boardgames when everyone else were drinking and getting wasted.. enjoying each others' company when everyone else were stabbing each other behind their backs... we never made new friends because we never ever felt like we had to...we had each other... no one else could ever be as good... everyone else in the world would be spiteful, jealous ol' pigs..
until now...thank you livee, hong leong, manda, sam, aileen!! thank you so so much for everything...but most of all, for showing me that there are great, good friends left in the world. you guys will never ever be spiteful, jealous ol' pigs to me!!!
my moto? love me, love my friends, hurt my friends and i'll kill you.
hahaha
i really want you-know-who(not lord voldemort=P) to be herself... because i can never accept her otherwise.. i feel so wretched sometimes...... but i can never be a true friend to someone i don't even know..
top row from left : yi min and i
second row from left : kar mern, grace, wei ann, peish and krystle
last row : lisa
livee and i
p/s : hong leong, gareth and mandaaaaa we need to take photooooooooo=Pp
